Behind The X's & O's of Business — the quit reflex
Carry Today’s Weight — Not Yesterday’s or Tomorrow’s
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Learning to carry weight isn’t about becoming tougher. It’s about learning when to unpack. This post reflects on how spreading the load creates clarity — and why carrying only today’s weight matters more than most people realize.
Why the Quit Reflex Isn’t a Warning — It’s a Signal
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The urge to quit isn’t always telling you something is wrong. Sometimes it’s telling you that something is growing. This post reframes the Quit Reflex as a signal to pay attention, not a command to stop.
The Weight of What You Prayed For
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The weight of business isn’t only made up of problems. Sometimes it’s made of answered prayers. This post reflects on how growth brings heavier responsibility — not because things are going wrong, but because they’re going right.
Pay Attention to the Moment You Want to Quit
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Quitting rarely announces itself. It shows up quietly, disguised as logic, exhaustion, or “being realistic.” This post reflects on why it matters to decide your convictions before pressure hits — so you don’t make permanent decisions in emotional moments.
Turning Mountains Into Molehills
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Big challenges don’t usually break businesses — the way we approach them does. This post reflects on a phrase I lived by for years, one I even put on the wall: turning overwhelming problems into small, manageable steps.